damngoal
Keep the dream. Bend the plan — goals that adapt when life does.
Essays
A goal is a relationship, not a project
Projects succeed or slip. Relationships have active stretches, quiet ones, and honest endings — which is the shape a goal actually has.
Not everything deserves to be a habit
Habit inflation is its own failure mode. Some things are once — and promoting them to a daily system is how the system stops meaning anything.